Hero

 Find a hero in your Husband book

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The world wisdom is considered foolishness in God’ eyes. Being a follower of Jesus Christ, you see marriage thru a different lens. Objective is how to partner with God for a redemptive process for your marriage.

We have power to build intimacy that guy has given us. Or we can sabotage it. Working hard doesn’t mean work wisely. At Times it can even damage the intimacy. It’s not a Husband improvement project. Is focus on ur role within the marriage. Focus not on what they do wrong but focus on how to respond to your challenges (wow that’s my practic in fact.) you are only accountable and responsible for how you steward your power in your marriage. The power that Guard has given you. How do you use it to honor him & promote intimacy. This book is to apply for practical work in my marriage and also deeper intimacy with God.

It’s easy to point fingers and blame, but the shame point another person to repentance? through all the difficulty in marriage got wanted me to see the weakness of me and seek him to become a better wife and better of me. I can only find the hero in my husband if I’m have humility and have a distinguished character to do so. Looking at him less of anniversary but lover support and friend. I see fear and pride expose but no shame.

The question is not whether or not you would be disappointed in marriage rather what you will do with the disappointment that inevitably occurs.

God plan, wedding is infancy stage.it grow overtime into maturity when living together thru conflicts, accepting difference thru storm. Intimacy requires illusion being in love is replaced with choice to love. 2 imperfect humans accepting each other fault. A woman never marries the man of her dreams she helped the man she married to become the man of his dreams. Frustration either response in anger or invest with faith in his strength. Believing in his potential. Not finding hero to be but hero “in” your husband. X changing your husband but abt hvg vision and expectations that God wants to do.

What a real hero looks like?essence of heroic is sacrifice for others. Husband has been created and called to Emulate the greatest hero Jesus Christ.

Marriage is so. holy so difficult so important to reflect God passionate & faithful love. 

Heroes are form not born.

God is more concerned with your character than your romance. Just a gold is refined by fire, our faith is tested and strengthen by trial. God is refining me through every problem that I wish I would never have to face.

Right now, you may want to have a relationship with God so He will help you build a good marriage. Embrace him the ultimate romance of your life, not just mean a happy marriage. 

Chapter 2 power for a purpose